Natalie’s Fallacies
A court found Natalie told false and malicious allegations and attempted fraud. Still it goes on…
We had agreement to return with the main point being Natalie agreeing to bring our daughter back from Norfolk, where she abducted her to in, and we would bring up our child with 50/50 time for each parent, in Hertfordshire, the region she was born and where we agreed to parent.
The forthcoming Mediation page will show Natalie’s messages agreeing this then walking away in January 2024. I write this page in October 2024, 9 months later. That we haven’t returned is solely due to Natalie walking away. As incomprehensible as it seems Natalie has constructively abandoned her child. It is the only plausible explanation. No doubt she wants to see our child but only after destroying me. That is the driving factor and it frightens me.
This isn’t because I didn’t return to the UK, it has been for the last 6 years (please see posts: Psychologist, Psychiatrist, Court Judgments and Summary). I am fearful of her.
Fallacies
This is the tip of the ice-berg. I will add as time allows. The narrative she is spinning to make cash is bizarre to any parent.
1. Natalie claims she may never see our child again.
The truth - Despite years of abuse I have bent over backwards to return safely. A court judgment says Natalie’s aim was to alienate our child but I want our child to have both parents.
We mediated an agreement but Natalie walked away from it in January 2024 without saying why. All of the time since then has been due to that and her refusing mediation offers by me and, in September 2024, a High Court Judge. Natalie did not explain why she refused.
2. Natalie claims she needs $30k donations on GoFundMe for legal fees
The truth - only true if she is intent of a case abroad over the good mediation agreement she walked away from and refuses further mediation.
Note: Natalie did not raise much on GoFundMe so she has asked court to take my house. This doesn’t even happen to criminals and this is a civil case. The court let her even though she has no connection to my house. Please see the November 2024 section in the Summary post for more details. Natalie is taking her own child’s house when I offered to give her the cash she needed so I could save the house for my family and child to inherit. What parent would do that to her own child?
3. Natalie claims I have abused her
The truth - She made this libellous claim to make money on GoFundMe. Abuse claims are often used in family court as it leads to Legal Aid. There is no evidence or even detail of what she mean but a court and the police found no evidence of abuse - NONE - and said Natalie’s claims were malicious and false yet she continues to make them in public for money.
4. Natalie claims welfare concerns for our child being with me
The truth - Natalie walked away from our agreement for shared parenting in the UK. She did so in January 2024, leaving our daughter with me for the past 9 months. No parent with genuine concern would do so. Natalie clearly has no concerns and knows our daughter is fine and happy.
Since the time Natalie first stopped me seeing our child in 2018 I have asked Natalie if we can go to mediation to resolved whatever it is but the attacks never end. Please see Court Judgments pages for more details. Even since January 2024 Natalie has concentrated on attacking me and making money rather than signing the mediated agreement we spent months on. I continue to seek peace and safety. Even in September 2024 a High Court judge and I offered Natalie mediation but she refused. No cause has ever been provided for the aggression and frighteningly no peaceful resolution is sought, only my destruction, which would also harm our child. It is very scary. I think any parent would be scared.